This is stunning. And although I write for science, not for art, it all still applies.
By Carolina De Robertis
This list began as a series of notes to myself, things I’ve needed to hear these first four years as a mother-writer. I hope something here can be of use to you as well. (As for you fathers, or you writers-not-parents or even artists-not-parents, I see you too; feel free to find resonance here as well.)
1. These aren’t rules. There are no rules. You’re a writer and mother, so mother and write.
2. You don’t always have to love the journey.
3. Love the journey.
4. A paragraph written with spit-up on your shirt will look no worse in print.
5. Hide from your children. The bathroom is good. Caves are good. Child care is better than diamonds (hint, hint, partners, relatives, friends).
6. Take yourself seriously.
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